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June 8, 2014

If You Want a Transformation, Don’t Blame Others When You Go Wrong

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In this video:

00:02 – You achieve transformation when you own up to your slipups
00:24 – A lot of people blame others for their slipups
00:42 – Mark and the brownie: A test of willpower
01:36 – It’s all up to me, but I’m not going to beat myself up about it
01:44 – Put things in place so they won’t happen again
02:00 – Admit your slipup, but get straight back on track
02:26 – Don’t beat yourself about it is the main key

 

 

Hi! This is Mark fromTheDVCC.com

Don’t Blame Others For Your Slipups
I’m going to give you another character trait of people that achieve tremendous transformations. So, this is another character trait that we’ve identified that our clients at Bedford and Milton Keynes, the character trait that they have. And therefore, it allows them to achieve an amazing transformation. One of these is the fact that they don’t blame others for their slipups. So, a lot of people, when they slip up, when they either eat bad food or they don’t do what they feel they need to do to lose weight or to get in the shape that they want to, they blame others and they blame the circumstances, they blame the situation that they’re in, other than themselves.

Mark and the Brownie: A Test of Willpower
Now, a good example is perhaps when you go to London – this has actually happened to me. I went to London. I spent the day out and I didn’t really plan what I’d be eating and I got ravenous. And when I’m hungry, it’s like my willpower goes, and I’ve probably got the worst willpower when I’m hungry. Most of the time, I don’t actually allow myself to have to rely on my willpower because you only obviously have a finite amount of willpower. But this time, I did, and I was a case of either eat some bad food – I think it was some cake or brownies, which are my kind of go-to if I ever want to make myself feel good for 10 seconds and terrible for the next 2 hours. But, it was that or feel bad and not eat any food. And because, like I say, my willpower is low when I’m hungry and I have low blood sugar, I ate the brownie.

It’s All Up To Me, But I’m Not Going to Beat Myself Up About It
However, a lot of people would blame the fact that, oh, I was in London. I couldn’t eat well, or I was out for the day. I couldn’t eat well. Now I knew that this was all down to me. This is my choice. I hadn’t planned and that was my fault. But I’m not going to beat myself up about it. I’m simply going to put things in place so the next time when I’m in the same situation, it won’t happen again. So I know that when I’m in London or if I’m out for the day, I can’t realistically rely on my willpower to not eat bad food if I’m hungry, so I’ll just simply accept that that’s with me, and this will allow me not to be in the same situation again.

Admit Your Slipup and Work on Putting Things in Place So It Won’t Happen Again
So, that is the kind of character trait you want to have if you’re to achieve a transformation, is if you slip up, yes, you slipped up. You can’t blame anyone else other than yourself, but blame yourself for all of half a second, and then get straight back on track and put things in place that it will never happen again. I’d love to hear your comments. Let me know if you think that you’ve been a victim of blaming others instead of yourself when perhaps it is more of your own fault. And don’t beat yourself up about it is the main key.

This is Mark from TheDVCC.com

 

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